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she waits for the ideal…

written by ChristingC November 19, 2009

Topshop boutique silk blazer, Toshop and vintage necklaces, RVCA tank, H&M scarf, Steve Madden boots, AA wet look skirt, Dior saddle bag, Rolex watch.

After a relaxed catch-up dinner with the best friend, and a less than comfortable journey home, the boy and I decided to settle at a wine bar located only ten steps from our front door. Conversation turned to the topic of friendship, and we spent time musing the values of history over connection. In my opinion connection wins in every relationship. This may be a result of experiencing betrayal and bullying from a young age, and a youth filled with school hopping. I can safely state, I did not find a true friend until my late teens, when I discovered the importance of similar values, preferences, and personalities. I have kept those relationships close, but have since gone through life only jumping in when the presence of similarities is evident. I can build trust within days, when the connection is right, never settling for a shallow, questionable relationship.
The boy’s friendships differ greatly from mine. The majority of his best friends were found before they learned fractions, and still remain in the same close knit group. He believes trust is built over time and enjoys vast differences in personality, so his friends fall into two distinct groups. The ones who he considers family, and those he often forgets the last names and birthdays, but can relay their perfect drunken night. I remain the one and only exception. At times I view his spectrum of relationships and envy his open demeanor, so while I skip through life only pausing at the right moments, the boy stops whenever possible, breathing in the good, while leaving behind the bad.

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19 comments

kpeach November 19, 2009 at 4:52 pm

I love this blog title, and your scarf xo

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~kristie~ November 19, 2009 at 4:57 pm Reply
Heather November 19, 2009 at 5:11 pm

I love the silk – so refreshing!

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Jacqueline November 19, 2009 at 5:18 pm

love your silk blazer!

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Annachiara November 19, 2009 at 5:24 pm

Wonderfull MY DARLING 🙂

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Fashion Chalet November 19, 2009 at 5:54 pm

Your necklace is a gem. LOVE the sparkle. 🙂

xx

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Bels November 19, 2009 at 6:17 pm

really like the blazer!!

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Phoebe Rose November 19, 2009 at 7:08 pm

that blazer looks so fab!

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lxstateoffashion November 19, 2009 at 9:13 pm

Your style is amazing! Love your necklaces!

I’ve been visiting your blog for a while and I will add you to my favs! [add me too :P]

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Fashion Nicotine November 19, 2009 at 9:22 pm

Great outfit!

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PIA November 19, 2009 at 9:44 pm

Your always going out somewhere.. Looking fabulous.. Love that blazer and scarf!!!!!

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Tee Sea November 19, 2009 at 11:20 pm

you pull off the silk blazer so well. Love the addition of the white clutch

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Sabrina November 20, 2009 at 12:29 am

i lik eyour necklace.you look beautiful

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Talk Pretty To Me November 20, 2009 at 3:18 am

lllooove the necklaces.

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Mademoiselle Frou-Frou November 20, 2009 at 3:50 am

your vintage necklace is perfection…i always love your posts!
xox

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kirstyb November 20, 2009 at 11:44 am

i know what you mean about friendship things and blokes also do seem to have friends from there very early years i think this is because when they disagree they dont hold a grudge and girls do and are super bitchy and jelaous! ha! on another note your outfit looks fab and i love ur necklace
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kayleigh Baker November 20, 2009 at 3:32 pm

I can easily relate to what your saying about friendships and how we differ from the male sex! Really like your silk blazer, such a lovely colour!

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tess stam November 20, 2009 at 11:03 pm

i really enjoyed this post, & as for your outfit, the clutch is gorgeous & got to love the Rolex.

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AMIT November 21, 2009 at 1:49 pm

Love your pictures.

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