Are you guys a little obsessed with this tied around the waist trend too? My partiality towards the grunge trend could be due to the fact that I spent much of my early adolescence in Washington State, the birthplace of Nirvana and unbuttoned plaid shirts. I still remember sporting this trend at the young age of 12 with boyish denim shorts and a crop top my Mom was unsure I should be wearing. Some things never quite change. It does make me feel a little old to remember a trend the first time around, but it just makes it all the easier to emulate I guess. I recommend using your boyfriend’s shirts. The longer sleeves and length make the statement more obvious than your own.